I am going to buy my first handgun soon and am looking at the Bersa's or something very similar. I LOVE the shape, feel, and size of the thunder 380 but everyone says that 380 is not enough and to get a 9mm. I have seen the UC 9mm and actually like it but am curious as to the movability while having it on your hip or in the small of your back? Like driving, moving, running, etc. How compact is it? The 380 is the perfect size for my hand. I am 6" tall and 150 pounds. So I am tall and skinny with small hands. Also what do you all know about the reliability, power, recoil, weight, etc. between the two models? Also is there any alternative that is a 9mm that is VERY similar to the 380 because I LOVE the shape and everything about it. I don't want to go higher than 9mm as my girlfriend needs to be able to shoot it and is tiny. Also I don't want high recoil. Any information would be greatly appreciated.